Fuck Buddy Tip : Top 5 Tips to Remember on Your First Fuck Buddy Date
What date? Haha. The first date should be at a motel or someone's apartment.
Okay but seriously...So you finally succeeded in getting that first fuck buddy coffee date . What’s next?
Well, you will do yourself a world of good to avoid making some common mistakes which can make or break your day, and possibly your mood. Outlined here are 5 mistakes that you should avoid at all costs. Ready to read on?
1. Do not come across as obsessive
This will scare off any fuck buddy quick smart. It's too freaky and can make one think that no fun times ahead.
2. Talking about another fuck buddy in front of them.
Ask first if they are open about discussing each others previous experiences and history. You may have a few fuck buddies on the go at once. Find out if it's okay to discuss these things. Lay the law down early!
3. Shagging is on your mind
It's a natural human desire. Of course it is. Don't get all heavy on the topic immediately. Go light and have a laugh about some things you both enjoy. Don't just talk about yourself. Reciprical flirting going on and allow the mood to direct you both.
4. Getting your hands all over each other.
On your first date with her, make sure you restrict yourself to just a friendly handshake at the beginning, and maybe guide her by the small of her back while crossing the road. And when sending her back home, a gentle little peck on her cheek would do very nicely. Do not be a maniac, and move your hands all over her unless the signs are there (we'll discuss this on another topic). Chances are, she will have the cops coming down on you in no time. So control yourself, and your hands. Be a gentleman, not a jerk.
5. What is your role in this?
I can’t stress this enough. On your first date, just be yourself and outline what you want to be in this relationship. In control or to be controlled. Discuss what you would like from the fuck buddy relationship. What fetishes you may be willing to explore and so on. Don't be to full on when describing your needs. Try not to scare them off on the first date.
There you have it. The top 5 things to remember on your first date, outlined very simply for you in this fuck buddy guide. Ignore them at your own peril and take from it what you can work with. If anything goes wrong on your first date, chances are, you will remember this article of mine.
Dean - Webmaster @ Fukked.com
Also the Director, writer, editor and arts director for Date Magazine Australia for 2002-2005 street press magazine
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